Even more so when they seem to be so close to their in-laws. And now that our children flew out of the nest and have a families of their own, we feel cast away. I met other stay-at-home moms and discovered that their values were similar to mine. It was the most enriching experience of my life, and I have no regrets about my choice. I was a stay-at-home mom out of conviction so that I could be fully available in my motherly role. We are only humans and can only strive to do the best we can. And our children are not perfect, either. Very sad to see all these forgotten parents who, like us, did their best to raise a happy family. It is hard not to feel like a failure when you're alone-again. I have another son out of state, too far to visit, and my one son who lives close is always with his girlfriend on holidays. I have tried inviting them for holidays in advance in the past, only to have them back out, so I quit trying. I just found out that Easter, which is in a week, will be spent with their friends, and of course the fact that I'm alone does not mean anything to them. The married one does what his wife wants for holidays. I was not a perfect mother, but I always thought that my sons would know how much I loved them and that we'd always have a good relationship. I was there for everything.I tried to make holidays special, birthdays, and everyday things. Their dad lived several states away and didn't make much effort. I can totally relate to the mothers on here who feel uncared for by their adult children. I'm praying for us all, that our situations improve greatly with our precious children! God is for us! I love all of you moms and wish you a Happy Mother's Day! In God's Love, Elise <3 I'm missing my children and grandchildren too. Now that I'm missing my dear mom terribly. If they would just include me, I'd be so thankful! I miss them all so much! Before my beloved late mother passed away in July 2015, she encouraged my children to do right by me, and most often they did. I just wanted them to be happy, and I still do! I pray that they try to show me they love me. When my children were young, I was told by friends and some family that I shouldn't let my children run over me as I sometimes did. I taught my children to be kind, caring, compassionate, to help others always. I tend to blame myself now and then as I was somewhat permissive. My situation is similar to yours, Tracey. My heart hurts so bad for all mothers who are hurting.